SMILE FOR ALL THEM HATERS

May 17, 2012
Oh my oh my, I almost forgot how it felt to have haters. There was a lot of hate, when my two other blogs (those about the bands) were at the top of their game. I had so many fights with people criticising every little detail they could think of. But at the end of the day, it didn't matter. Because the blogs were really successful and that was all that was important to me.


Yesterday, I've made a Facebook page for this blog. And I have already explained myself - a lot of times, I want to say or post something, but I don't have time to post it here, or it's not worthy of a whole post, so I will post those things on the Facebook page.



And I have sent invites to my FB page to my whole friendlist, because I actually don't have any idea, who from my friends visits my blog and who doesn't. I was ready to answer all the questions from people in my friendlist, because I was sure that some of them would have no idea, what my blog was, what the FB page was about etc etc. 

I would never say that I am above someone .. but I am most deffinitely above some individuals in hating on other people - I don't hate on anyone ;)

Today, one of the people I have added some time ago (I had many friend requests and I had no idea, if I have met some of those people, or not, so I just added the ones that sounded kind of familiar) has asked me, why he was invited to like my Facebook page and what it was about. I explained it to him. And right away, he started writing me rude comments about the blog, about why I was blogging and this continued on and on to the point I just had to laugh about it. Someone who doesn't even know me was acting like he knew me, telling me I was arrogant. And no, I don't think having a blog like this is being arrogant. But yes, I am going to be arrogant to you, when you are acting like an asshole towards me, without even knowing me personally. I mean, what kind of a behaviour is that? 


Yes, I do laugh about it, but at the same time, it makes me angry, because I know, that not everyone would take criticism like this one as lightly as I do. There are some people, who might consider this being cyber bullying. And to people who might get hurt by this, I just want to say, don't take stuff like this seriously, or personal. These people have some kind of complexes, they don't understand - and don't try to explain anything to them. Just smile and ignore them. At the end of the day, you know who you are. You know why you are doing what you are doing. And that's the most important thing. 

I apologize for possible spelling mistakes, I was kind of angry when I was writing this and I just needed to let it out, as soon as possible. Because this is exactly the kind of stuff I started personal-blogging in the first place. When someone made me angry and when I knew, that this wasn't just my case, I needed to let my anger out. And there was always someone who understood me. 

Anyways, I would really like to say thank you again to everyone, who supports me and this blog, to everyone who visits, to everyone who comments, to everyone who likes the FB page. I really appreciate it! 

Love, Petush 

4 comments :

  1. omg, those people..-haters, only low selfesteem, nothing else;) happy to see that you are okay with it!:))

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  2. thank you very much for your comment!! I'm so very happy you found my blog! So I'm following you too and keep in touch!
    XOXO

    www.mybetterhalf-mybetterhalf.blogspot.com

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  3. Yes! Preach my sister! You have nothing to be angry about at all!
    I love your blog and there are many more that agree with me... I know ;)

    eusouperlinha.blogspot.com

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